Recently, my bf is facing some family problems at his home.
He is the only boy at home and he has 2 sisters.
But her mum really dote on my bf.
My bf sisters never got jealous and also dote on him too.
But, there is a problem.....
He is the only boy at home and he has 2 sisters.
But her mum really dote on my bf.
My bf sisters never got jealous and also dote on him too.
But, there is a problem.....
His mum is really trying to control his life.
His mum is over protecting his only son.
Which result in....
That my bf have no chance to see the world.
Not that its not good to protect my bf.
But over protecting is not good...
His mum is over protecting his only son.
Which result in....
That my bf have no chance to see the world.
Not that its not good to protect my bf.
But over protecting is not good...
“弟，妈不是要绑你，你知道的。
她只是很疼你，很担心你在外头发生事情。
刚才爸讲了些难听的话，所以她才激动，
哭了起来”
Translation:
"Brother, mum is not trying to control you.
You know it.
She really dotes on you,
afraid that bad things happend to you.
Just now dad said something which aggitate her.
So she cried...."
The above conversation was between him and his 2nd sister.
Sometime i wonder if our parents really love us?
Don't they want to see you to be independent.
And be sucessful in life?
How they want to control our life?
To protect us?
她只是很疼你，很担心你在外头发生事情。
刚才爸讲了些难听的话，所以她才激动，
哭了起来”
Translation:
"Brother, mum is not trying to control you.
You know it.
She really dotes on you,
afraid that bad things happend to you.
Just now dad said something which aggitate her.
So she cried...."
The above conversation was between him and his 2nd sister.
Sometime i wonder if our parents really love us?
Don't they want to see you to be independent.
And be sucessful in life?
How they want to control our life?
To protect us?
1 comment:
你並不需要說得太武斷，崇勝的父母很愛很愛他，不是要控制他的人生，試想想你的孩子對你隱瞞他人生的一切，欺騙你，你會作何感受？
也許你們倆需要更成熟地去面對這個問題，口頭上的承諾並不能代表甚麼，我相信你很明白這一點，對崇勝坦白，對崇勝的父母坦白，是給與他們最基本的尊重，如果連這一點都沒有辦法做到，怎麼能天長地久？
我尊重崇勝的選擇，也看得出來他和你在一起很開心，希望你真的能夠讓他幸福，而不只是你們兩個人的快樂，也請體諒你們身邊摯親的人。
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